Have An Affair, Life Is Too Short
The average life expectancy is about 67. Shave off 18 years growing up and another 17 growing old and you have a 30 year window of opportunity. For what, you might ask? Well, getting laid, having fun and wild sex. 30 years may seem a lot, but as you get older the years zip by. Not to mention the fact that it could all end at any moment with you sitting there in your last few seconds thinking “I wish I could have (insert activity here).
Having regrets about not having fulfilled your fantasies is one of the worst things that you can imagine. After all, everything is a learning experience. Once, a friend told me “Sometimes, the worst of the strange is better than the best of the familiar”. I was just very young then. But what he said made sense.
Then I was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder. It’s one of those ones you cant see, aren’t contagious and have no symptoms, but at any time you could just get hit by the proverbial bus. Life really is too short. After undergoing a 6 hour operation to remove some bad bits (don’t worry, I am fine for the moment) I came to the realization that I must live my life. I adore my partner, he is a great guy, but there are sometimes things I can’t do or ask him to do.
So I went out and did it. Guess what. I didn’t feel at all bad. It wasn’t emotional and no-one will ever know. But the difference in me was profound. I felt like a new me. Sure, I still do it sometimes, when I get the urge. But always in an uncomplicated way, nothing with dramas. Guys have it easy. They can meet up with a cute call girl and never have to worry. I on the other hand have to vet anyone well, to make sure there won’t be any romantic entanglements.
I suggest that everyone do it. At least once. I mean, you have no idea what you are missing unless you try. Keep it fun, keep it simple and keep it uncomplicated. Do it for you. Don’t let your whole life pass you by and then one day realize it is too late to even do anything about it. The excitement you will feel, the pleasure that you both give and receive, will go a long way to making you feel more confident, energetic and happy.